How can an attractive blk woman in South Africa get a white male for a serious relationship?

I'm afraid, white SA men are still living in the back wards days and this limits my chances, how can I meet like minded white men for something meaningful. I'm attractive, have a good job and quite independent. I have a 5 yr old daughter, but I am not looking for a faher for her, but someone I can have a wonderful time with and hopefully build a great future together.