Do music videos stereotype women's appeal wrong?

The fact that they take one single women a glorify her as a goddess does this not create a ripple effect towards other women's insecurities. It sickens me to see a ordinary young women being destroyed by fame, vanity and a false sense of security. Personally I would love to see a music video that doesn't lean to the mes. Maybe one were a women is just sitting on a chair singing and not wiggling everything that she has and a pound of cosmetics and hair products.